P.P. & S. PAMUR Kombinasi Tjimande

Tari Kolot Kebon Djeroek Hilir Banten Indonesia

On a regular basis, Guru Besar/ Pendekar Ph.J.C Tönjes Glr. Sanjoto is guiding his students in Indonesia. He shows them all the places that are important for the expansion of Pencak Silat in general and specifically the steams Tjimande Tari Kolot from Banten (West-Java) and PAMUR Madura (East-Java. During this trip teachers and graves of founders are visited.

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1.Start 5.Ceribon 9.Madura
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Travel Report Indonesia 2006
Translated by: dr. Happy Bongers

In July and August 2006, a group of twelve people accompanied Paatje to Indonesia. From the Netherlands: Gijs and his girlfriend Neeltje, Stephen, Anthony, Remco, Suresh, Mickelle, and Alex. From France: Sophie Petit, Julien, Christophe and Sophie Ancel.

The first week was dedicated to the Sundanese culture, from which the Tjimande Tari Kolot originates. The second week, we mainly paid attention to the cultural curiosities in Central Java. In the third week, we gave several PAMUR demonstrations and our focus was on East Java. In the final week there was time for some socialising: the visiting of old friends and acquaintances in Jakarta and making new friends.

Jakarta
By: Mickelle, translated by: Happy
Sunday 07-23-2006

In spite of our late arrival the other night, we were squeezed with 10 persons into a kijang at 8.00 o’clock in the morning. Two of us go to the training on the back of a moped. First, there was a warming-up together with the other PAMUR pupils, bare-footed on the bricks. Next, Dewi –a former PAMUR talent who is married now- teaches our group the Anfal Tangan. Some of the pupils wear a head-scarf, like Dewi. The training is mixed: boys and girls together.

After the training, part of our group visits the Padepokan Pencak Silat in Taman Mini, where Anthony, Stephen, and Remco make a nice photo shoot. Back home, it appears that we’ve made over 1500 pictures during the entire trip.

 


Training in Jakarta

Another part of the group accompanies Neeltje when she visits her Indonesian friend Yesi, who lives in Jakarta. Waryono, who is Yesi’s husband, is also present. They go shopping and meet Raden Ajeng Ambar, Taty Bovenlander’s cousin (Taty is Eric Bovenlander’s wife. For more information about Eric, who is an expert on Sundanese culture, you can check this website.

Tonight, Paatje likes to go out for dinner. However, the hotel where we sleep, called the LPMP, takes care of the food during the entire day. When Gijs tells the hotel personnel that they don’t have to cook, he builds the following sentence: “Kami mau makan keluar.” (We want to go out for dinner). In the mean time, he sees the buffet is already prepared. The cook looks disappointed. So, Gijs decides to change his mind:”Ok, sekarang kami makan di sini” (now we eat here). We will go out for diner tomorrow.

The rest of the day, we train a little and we meet Janti, Dewi’s sister. She joined Dewi in the international team Pencak Silat. Meanwhile, she’s also married like her sister. Furthermore, Tulus’ brother pays a visit. Tulus is the trainer of the PAMUR. He’s also a choreographer of the Indonesian international PERSILAT team and he’s won so many Pencak Silat events that he is no longer allowed to join any competition. By the way, Tulus’ brother also makes a great impression, especially upon the French. He shows his talents for massage and in the mean time releases Julien from his knee problems.

Monday 07-24-2006

This is the day of the training. In the morning, Tulus tired us out in a small room in one of the buildings of the LPMP.

We sweat seriously. In front of me, a pupil is literally pouring with perspiration. The sweat drips from his body and clothes on the tiled floor. A man from the PAMUR mops the floor. It doesn’t really help, as I must still be careful not to slip.


Suresh, Tulus, Stephen.

We learn the Kuda-Kuda and the Anfal Kaki until 18. We also repeat the Anfal Tangan. These are obligatory parts of the PAMUR exams.

Just as I think we are finished, the stretching begins. Lucky as I am, Tulus himself turns my back and legs in every possible direction. According to him, I should do these exercises more often. Only Sophie II passes the test easily, with her elastic body.

Then the most important question comes: Would you like to train again at 16.00h? Of course! No one wants to show his true character.

Subsequently, Neeltje and Stephen arrange a bus for our roundtrip. It’s done in only half an hour, because we had already made an agreement with the drivers of our previous trip through Indonesia. The previous driver works no longer for Bluebird, so his friend Soerjadi will drive us.

Dewi’s afternoon training session was easier. She repeats everything and finishes the Anfal Kaki (18 until 24). She brings her home-made cake that we will eat after 1,5 hours with great taste.

Afterwards, we walk together with her husband Mamang to the warung, where they have great ikan bakar. At night we chill a bit, as leave to Bogor at 8.30 the next morning.

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Bogor

By: Neeltje, translated by: Happy

Tuesday 07-25-2006

An early rise again. However, the nasi is already prepared at seven o’clock. After breakfast and some hasty packing, the bus to Bogor leaves at 9.09 o’clock precise. We are driven by two drivers, Bambang and Soerjadi, in a 24-seat ‘Blue Bird’ bus with air conditioning. One hour later, we arrive at Bogor. Map reading does seem to be easy for the drivers, so after a small d-tour we arrive at the house of Ibu Tien Rostini Asikin. She’s the pendekar of the Pejajaran style. People call her the ‘mother of the Sundanese culture’. As the first guests of Eric Bovenlander, our reception was very warm (For more information about Eric, who is an expert on Sundanese culture, you can check this website. For us, it’s of course quite an honour to be part of it.

The quietness and fresh air in Bogor are a relief compared to Jakarta. After a well cared-for lunch - Ibu Asikin has a good cook – we take our bus to Kebun Raya: the botanic gardens. These gardens are situated in the city centre and cover 80 hectares. The park contains many high and impressive trees, beautiful water lilies and deer. The presidential palace is situated in one corner of the gardens. This palace was the summer residence of the former president Soekarno en before that, it was the residence of the governor-general Van Starckenborg-Stachouwer in the colonial age. In the park, we visit the grave king Eyang Jepra of West-Java, who ruled around 1600. His consort Ibu Ratu and his maid of honour are buried in the park. The king was chosen by the people, because he was a man of great esteem, who was powerful and widely respected by nature. This reign was not inheritable. As this king was also occupied with defending his kingdom while using martial arts, he has been an important figure in the development of Pencak Silat.

After the outing, there’s a practice for Wednesday night’s presentation.

At night in Jakarta, we visit a benefit night for the victims of the tsunami in South-West Java. The meeting is kept in a nice hotel at the large circular road Jalan Sudirman. After a jaipong demonstration, the donation begins. We offer 100 euro from the club reserve. Stephen hands over the money and bapak Tönjes gives a speech. The actual amount of donated money is constantly presented on a screen with the addition: ‘+ 100 euro’. Afterwards, a wayang golek puppet play is presented. It’s a long night and we don’t reach our beds before one o’clock.

Wednesday 07-26-2006

Today is dominated by the Jaipong dance and the tonight’s Tjimande demonstration

We’re expected to be taught the basics of the Jaipong at 8 o’clock. Our teacher is bapak Dasep Arifin, Ibu Asikin’s brother. He’s been a Jaipong teacher for a long time, however he hasn’t taught for a quite a while. After some delay, we start and stop at noon. After lunch, the lesson continues until half past two. Subsequently, one more repetition for the Tjimande demonstration and we can go mandi again. Everybody’s tired before the party night begins.

A number of important guests are present, amongst them a guru besar of the Tjimande Tari Kolot, the secretary general (sekjen) of the Tjimande T.K.K.D.H.B., Gaos Abdussalam, and a general from the Indonesian army, bapak Mayjen TNI Hasanuddin.


The Asikin family, Bogor.

We were the first to demonstrate. The demonstration is fully based on the Tjimande and, - like all of our demos – barefoot. Mickelle’s opening and the identity walk are followed by a Tjimande dance and several beladiris with animal styles. Accompanied by live Tjimande music, it’s a feast to demonstrate between the torches. Monkeys and tigers dive from stage stairs. Many pavement stone breaks, but fortunately Ibu Asikin is cheering enthusiastically.

After a breathtaking jaipong performance, general Hasanuddin tells about the Tjimande, examples included. Other members of the Tjimande T.K. demonstrate as well.

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Tjimande
By: Gijs, translated by: Happy

Thursday 07-27-2006

After saying goodbye to Ibu Asikin, we leave for Bandung at 10.30 the next day. She invites us to give another presentation at her book presentation on the 11th of August. As we are starting out journey around Java, we can’t promise anything. We’ve had a few fantastic days behind us, also with thanks to Eric Bovenlander of course.


Demonstration Tjimande T.K.D.H.

But that’s not all. Before we drive towards Bandung, we visit the Padepokan Tjimande Tari Kolot Kebon Djeroek Hilir (T.T.K.D.H.), situated in the place with the similar name: ‘Desa Tjimande’. Gaos Abdussalam, the sjeken of the T.T.K.D.H. accompanies us. It is very impressive. We visit the grave of the Padepokan’s founder, only a few meters away from the Padepokan. Subsequently, we exchange information and we eat fruit (salah). It appears, we are the first Europeans who have visited this Padepokan until now. Apparently, several European schools claim to pursue Tjimande and refer to the Padepokan in the village Tjimande. However, the board members of T.T.K.D.H. say they’ve never heard of them.
 

We receive the acknowledgement that we are the only representatives of the T.T.K.D.H. in the Netherlands and France. And we are treated to a demonstration of three girls, who synchronically perform a walk. Unfortunately we had to leave at noon. The road to Bandung follows the Puncak Pass, which offers a nice view on the surrounding area. 


As recommended by Guru H. Tulalessy from Den Bosch, we stay at the Mutiara hotel in Bandung. It gave every satisfaction and we found out that Mr. Tulalessy (paguronmandemudamawarsuci) is very popular in the hotel.


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Bandung
By: Gijs, translated by: Happy

Friday 07-28-2006

After a good night’s sleep, we drive to Cimahi. Here, Paatje’s father has been buried on the cemetery of honour Leuwigajah. He had been interned by the Japanese and died for the Dutch tricolour. Paatje himself was 14 years old at the time. He fought for the merahputih.

Afterwards, we visit the house of Guru Besar Subana, also in Cimahi. He’s from Pajajaran and furthermore, he’s Guru Bapak Tulalessy’s teacher (www.paguronmandemudamawarsuci.nl). Subana’s assistant, bapak Herman is also present. They we’re not aware of our arrival this day, but nevertheless, we we’re received very hospitable. Bapak Subana shows us pictures of bapak Tulalessy and his pupils. As we mention the field of honour, it turns out that bapak Herman has lost his father too during the Japanese occupation. Unfortunately, he still doesn’t know if there’s a grave where his father has been buried. According to Paatje, this is an example of the way the Indonesian people were treated by the Dutch. Then it’s time for bapak Subana’s music.


Paatje listens to Bapak Subana’s music.

We have the afternoon off. In the evening, we visit a school of Gadjah Putih. Until know, Paatje was not familiar with this Tjimande style. Therefore, it’s worthwhile to accept the invitation given by the hotel, via Suresh and Remco. That night, we’re given a demonstration and we also give a demonstration ourselves, accompanied by live music in the kampong.

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Ceribon
By: Julien
Saturday 07-29-2006

Today, we take the bus to Ceribon at 8.00 o’clock. Via Ceribon we will arrive at Yogyakarta at night. Some of us suffer serious belly aches.

The day is largely spent inside the bus, except for a stop at the grave of Syarif Hidajatullah/ Sunan Gunung Jati. He was one of the important Wali’s, who was responsible for the spread of Islam in Indonesia. He was the only Wali, who also was king. His grave is a place of pilgrimage for many Indonesians and for us as well.


At Sunan Gunung Jati’s grave.

 

After visiting the grave we’re having dinner at a sympathetic place, however the food isn’t very good. We’re having sate kambing. Afterwards, we travel in a picturesque landscape. After a very long trip and rumbling bellies, we arrive at Yogyakarta.

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Jogyakarta
By: Julien, translated by: Happy
Sunday 07-30-2006

The next day, we meet Erna. She’s a good acquaintance of Paatje: Paatje treats her as his grandchild. She will be our guide during our stay in Yogyakarta.

We visit a Kraton with the highlight a guided tour through the historical palace, including a story about the sultan’s live. Afterwards, we’re having a meal in the surroundings of the palace. Finally, we visit a workshop, where batik clothes and wayang kulits are made. Some of us obtained a new spiritual associate here.
 

Jogyakarta
By: Stephen, translated by: Happy

Monday 07-31-2006

After a tasteful and hot breakfast we prepare ourselves for our trip to the Borobudur. As Alex was suffering from diarrhoea the entire night, we had to call a doctor. He prescribed him several types of medication.

We arrive at the Borobudur at 12.15 o’clock. It appears to be much quieter than we eventually thought it would be. Erna explains us the history of the Borobudur. It is part of the Buddhist culture and was built in the 8th century A.D. It’s also regarded as one of the seven world wonders. The Buddhism distinguishes three stages: the stage of desire, the stage of shape, and the stage of shapelessness. Each gallery is decorated with sculptures up the highest terrace, where the atmosphere of shapelessness prevails.

We leave for Bantul at half pas two, after a number of pictures have been taken. Bantul is one of the areas badly hit by the earthquake in May last. En route, we stop at a nice restaurant for a late lunch. The restaurant is divided in separated cottages, situated on an artificially created lake.

The trip to Bantul takes much longer than expected, as we don’t arrive before seven o’clock. We are welcomed by Erna’s friend Deva. She’s a coordinator in a centre for youth. Together with six students she shelters children from the village and takes care of the reconstruction of the village. The government supports this centre with a donation of four million (about 350 euro), but after one million the donation is suspended because of several aftershocks.

After a short introduction we are accompanied to a tent where beautiful singing of the children who survived the earthquake welcomes us.

We get the opportunity to ask the children about their experiences. Where were during the earthquake, what they miss the most, etc. One was watching tv, the other was playing a game. Some of them were missing their bike or toys, others missed Spongebob on the television. One thing is quite remarkable: Despite their misery, the children sing joyfully for us. Happy songs, but also about their recent experiences: “Why do we have to live like this, without a house and without the friends we have lost?”


The children from Bantul sing joyfully for us.

After delivering the clothes and toys that we’ve brought with us, Paatje and Cristoph donate one million roepia (about 90 euro) in name of the club for the reconstruction of the village. The money will primarily be used for food.

Of course, we wish the students and all the volunteers good luck with their good deeds.

Tuesday 08-01-2006

In the morning, we visit the family of our driver Suryadi in Magelang. He’s happy because he can take us to his village. When we arrive at his village, we are treated to fresh kelapa muda, ice cream, biscuits, etc. The people are very friendly

In the afternoon, there’s time to visit the city centre, go shopping in a mall and by souvenirs in a batik shop. We also buy DVDs for Bantul, because the children told us they miss the Tom and Jerry and SpongeBob cartoons. We hand over the DVDs to Erna, after she ensures us there’s TV and a DVD-player in the village.

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Blitar
By: Suresh, translated by: Happy
Wednesday 08-02-2006

We stay at the Mendut Hotel in Yogyakarta. Here we stuff for the journey; at least, that is what I do. At 8 o’clock in the morning we leave the hotel. Half of the group is still a little ill. With good courage we travel.

The journey is nice and long. We are chilling in the bus. Literally, as it is freezing in the bus. The drivers are really speeding, since we were lost once. We arrive at exactly ten to five. Quickly, we buy flowers for the late bapak Soekarno. Because there’s no place to park close to the grave, we travel by bechak. This is quite an effort: they stand around us arguing who will take us. Fortunately, we’re just in time.

After taking a lot of pictures and its surrounding, we reach the grave. Here, we’ve some praying.


Bapak Tönjes at the statue of the late president Soekarno.

Paatje’s glad we’ve made it. President Soekarno was like a second father to him. Paatje fought for the merah-putih, and therefore Bung Soekarno is a great example for him. He was the first president who tried to achieve liberation from the Dutch colonisation and succeeded. Hence, he’s regarded as the father of the people. Paatje has met the president once. He sat beside him and had to opportunity to talk to him. The president asked him why Paatje did not leave for the Netherlands. Paatje said that there would be nothing for him in the Netherlands. It’s tragic for Paatje that he was forced to go to the Netherlands, put under pressure by family. It’s still hard for him to live in a country that colonised his. Paatje told us this story on the way from and towards the grave.

As we arrive at the bechaks to return to our bus, it appears the bechak of Remco and me has disappeared. We just want to start walking, when we suddenly hear a shout: hey, hey mister! Our ride has arrived.

When we finally return to our bus, we’re at the beginning of another long trip to Surabaya. At 22.00 o’clock we arrive. Everyone is really tired, but we haven’t had dinner yet. Across the street of our luxurious hotel Weta is a street restaurant. There we eat a little and afterwards: We sleep!

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Surabaya

By: Suresh, translated by: Happy

Thursday 08-03-2006


 

Today we visited the grave of the last king of the Majapahit: Raden Wijaya Jayawardhana. Besides the grave of Sunan Gunung Djati in Ceribon, it is one of the two most important destinations of our journey.

The Majapahit realm was the last Hindu-Buddhist realm from 1300 until 1500 A.D. It was founded by king Kertarajasa. It became a very large kingdom, that consisted of Central-Java, Madura, parts of Maleysia, Borneo, Sumatra, Bali and Celebes. The most famous ruler of the realm was king Hayam Wuruk, who ruled from 1350 until 1389 A.D. His prime minister and regent Gajah Mada had an important role as well.

In the 15th century, the power of the Majapahit realm diminished. The influence of Islam in Indonesia increased. In the twentieth century, the Majapahit realm was used as an example for the liberated Indonesia. De device of Indonesia - unity by diversity – and the arm – the Panca Sila – are derived from it.

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The last king of Majapahit's grave.

Madura
By: Alex, translated by: Happy
Friday 08-04-2006

On Friday afternoon we leave for Madura after all. Earlier, we doubted whether it would be safe. Some of us have seen shocking images of bloody events on Madura on the television.

However, bapak Parso from Surabaya ensures us that it is safe. Even more: we must go. Because his father in-law, who currently is very ill, is said to be sitting straight in his bed to welcome us. Parso arranges a guide, who will join us. It’s his brother Harry, who looks according to Paatje quite similar to a one of his former students: Harry Bosstraten.

After twenty minutes on a fairy, we are welcomed by the dry heat of Madura. Our hotel ‘New Ramayana’ is quite okay. It looks a little like a bungalow park. After refreshing ourselves, it is time to visit guru besar Hasan Habudin, founder of the PAMUR. He’s visibly happy to meet us.

Saturday 08-05-2006

The next day, there’s time to prepare tonight’s demonstration properly. Everybody is glad that we can train again. In the afternoon, one can rest or flirt with the local barmaid. Especially Remco appears to be very skilful.

At night, finally it is time for the demonstration. We’ve been brought to a small village just outside Pamekasan. In the village, a party has been organised to start the festivities around the Indonesian independence at August 17. First, we are treated to a demonstration of the local PAMUR club. Fortunately, the stage is just suited to handle the violence of their large group.

Thereafter, it is time for a ritual dance of the tiger: two men, who dance and move like a tiger in a large tiger-suit. It is also possible to give a donation by putting some money in the lion’s jaws.

Then it finally is our turn. The difficult rhythm of the music and the not very stable stage are not really in our advantage, but in the end, we can look back at a good performance. Also thanks to the ropes at the sides of the stage, hold by all the men to stabilise it.

Especially Anthony is praised for his firm solo (that he had learned only a day before). Next, of course there’s food and finally another dance of the lion.

Sunday 08-06-2006

The next day we had the opportunity to say goodbye to bapak Hasan Habudin. He wished all of us the very best. To us, it felt like a final goodbye. And unfortunately it appeared to be correct. On September 28 2006, guru besar/ pendekar R. Hasan Habudin died. We are grateful that we’ve had the opportunity to be in his presence and we wish his family lots of strength to cope with this great loss. Not just this loss, but also the loss of the oldest son of the family, Idjon, member of the dewan Pendekar PAMUR. We didn’t expect to it would be the last time that we have seen him. He died even before his father, in the beginning of September. 

Back at the hotel, we were supposed to get new suits for demonstrations. However, it turned out that there were some errors in the sizes. It takes half a day to make the corrections. With the suit problem unsolved, we leave for Probolinggo, the residence of Paatje's family.

After quite a search, we arrive at night. Because the flooded rice-fields (sawas) are nowadays covered with houses, Paatje no longer recognises the way. Fortunately, we do find it. As expected, the pisang goreng was already waiting for us. It’s like coming home. Soeparni, host and widower of Paatje’s cousin pulls us in while shaking our hands. Poerwono, his pleasant son is also present. That night is spent on the veranda, while having long conversations.

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Banyuwangi
By: Mickelle, translated by: Happy

Monday 08-07-2006


Bapak Tönjes at the family grave.

At eight o’clock in the morning, Paatje starts his ritual as he always does when he visits his home village: a trip around the kampong, greeting everybody. Visiting the family grave. Strew flowers on a crossing for the local Danyang (guardian angels.

A visit to the house where Paatje and his family have lived. The house is still kept as a monument. Behind the house was a monkey on a lead. The woman, who takes care of the house, shows us an old picture of Paatje and his family.

In front of the house is a kindergarten. We take pictures of ourselves with the children of the kindergarten. Then we go back to Soeparni’s house for a breakfast with nasi. After that we immediately take the bus to pick up bapak Parso in the neighbouring place Bentar.

He arranged that we would go up and down Banyuwangi today. As he was in the neighbourhood, he would join us.

During the last trip, we also went to Banyuwangi and it turned out to be a madhouse. Would it be the same this time?

The trip to Banyuwangi takes at least five hours. Including a dinner break, it becomes even longer. Later, we would regret this break, as we are fully stuffed, moreover because we’ve already eaten quite a lot in Probolinggo.

Once we arrived in Banyuwangi, it appears to be just the same as last time. We’re taken to the guru’s house. In the house, a buffet with several kinds of fish is prepared. But we can’t eat another thing! It’s a real shame, because it’s the best food of the journey and we’re not hungry.

Last time, we were welcomed with a large banner. We thought it could not be exceeded, but we were wrong. A new banner has been made, and there’s a real stage, just like on Madura. Unfortunately, there aren’t any ropes to stabilise it. As Remco is determined to go through the stage, we swish from left to right and the splinters fly around. Fortunately, everyone’s saved, the children who were hiding underneath the stage included. It’s not the best demo we’ve given so far, but the cheering of the hundreds of children is deafening.

Alex turns out to be a real friend of the children, they follow him everywhere. After shaking hundreds of hands, we have to leave quite soon, that is at 22.00 o’clock.

Driver Soerjadi drives ‘like crazy’ on the way back to Probolinggo. We ride over bouncy roads and we are being launched regularly. At 1.30 at night we come home. After only three hours and a half, a record time as we picked up one hour and a half. In the garden, a goat is bleating loudly, ready to be slaughtered the next morning. With this prospect, we dive into our beds.
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Probolinggo
By: Mickelle, translated by: Happy

Tuesday 08-08-2006

In the morning, indeed the goat is being slaughtered on the small pavement in front of the kitchen. It is cut into pieces and all the pieces are skewed to sate sticks. For some of us it is a problem that they don’t know which piece of the goat will end up at their sate stick.


At the schoolyard in Probolinggo.

There isn’t much time to think about it, as we take the bechak to the local bank. Thereafter we take the bus for a tour through Probolinggo: the pier, the market, the city. Soeparni accompanies us in his pyjamas and barefoot.

The selamatan for Paatje is in the afternoon, with the goat served as goulai (a Madurese dish) and sate kambing.

Today was really a quiet day. But at night, there’s a karaoke night in the local pub! A second cousin by marriage hosts the party. Of course Paatje gives a karaoke performance and sings two songs for us. Then, there’s some kind of contest that Neeltje and Mickelle have to join. Mickelle wins an Indonesian telephone card, which she can use very well during the next week. Of course, several family members of Paatje joined us this night.

The exact relationship between Paatje and his relatives is rather complicated, as the family connection goes much further than in Dutch standards.

The family, who hosts us in Probolinggo, are descended from the ones who took care of Paatje in his youth. Paatje’s parents were divorced when he was five. As a single child, Paatje had to live with his grandfather, after some wandering about (amongst others, he stayed with his uncle and aunt in Jember). This grandfather, of Madurese origin, was very Dutch-minded. He owned a large house and had an important position as chief of the railway station.

The Dutch often used the Madurese to fight for them. The people of Madura were spread over Java. Originally, they were fishermen and less sophisticated than the Javanese and more direct. The Dutch managed to prepossess both Paatje’s father and grandfather for their favour. In that part of the family was also European blood, hence the name Tönjes. Because Paatje’s grandfather was given a nice position, he stayed loyal to the Dutch, even though his blood was mainly Madurese.

As Paatje did not feel at home in the large house of his grandfather, he spent much of his time in the kampong with his granduncle and grandaunt, who considered themselves as real Madurese: mum and dad Kasan. They are diametrically opposed to Paatje’s grandfather. Still, according to Paatje, mum and dad Kasan always tried to support their brother (by marriage) during the Japanese occupation, by supplying him with food, which they had smuggled illegally.

The youngest daughter of mum and dad Kasan was married to Soeparni. She died young. She and Soeparni have a son: Poerwono. He lives only two houses from his father Soeparni. Today, he told us that we’re always welcome in Probolinggo. Even if we travel alone, because he regards us as his family too, so he says.

Soeparni and his wife also have a daughter. Her husband Suratno took us to the karaoke night.

Wednesday 08-09-2006

In Bentar, a cultural festivity takes place, in scope of the 17th of August. It is organised by Parso, and our demo is scheduled. The suits still aren’t ready yet. According to Parso, it will be all right if we visit Surabaya on the way back to Jakarta. He will bring the suits to hotel Weta.

The cultural festivity consists of many tents where food from several regions is offered. Besides, there are several performances on the stage, particularly with traditional dance. We will be the last to perform.

In advance, our clothing draws a lot of attention. We have to wait for a long time. Fortunately Paatje’s family is also present, which makes the waiting more pleasant. Soeparni has put on his Sunday suit. Even the director of the factory, the host of the karaoke night is there.

Finally, we’re on. The cousin by marriage was supposed to film. It turned out to be the worst movie we’ve ever had from a demo. The camera was shaking heavily because of his enthusiasm in such a way that one would get sick watching the video. But he’s forgiven. He mainly recorded the audience that was surprised that Europeans are able to practice Pencak Silat in such a traditional manner, whereas they abandoned it themselves. According to Suratno, they were embarrassed.

After the demo, we are embraced by the audience. But we have to leave soon and are already walking towards the bus. Except for Alex, who couldn’t leave the stage, so we waited a little.

Thursday 08-10-2006

This would be the heaviest day as far as it concerns travelling: from Probolinggo to Jakarta via Surubaya.

Normally, it takes less than four hours to reach Surabaya. However, a chemical factory exploded, so the road was covered with mud. It took us an entire day to get to Surabaya. We quickly picked up the suits and had dinner at McDonalds. Subsequently, we travelled to Jakarta during the night.

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Jakarta
By: Mickelle, translated by: Happy

Friday 08-11-2006/ Saturday 08-19-2006

Arrival in Jakarta in the early afternoon. The same address as the first few days: LPMP. From here, were allowed to do what we want the final week. We’re no longer tied to the group. Still, we did some things together.

We had the bus only until Monday. Therefore, we went with the entire group to Ibu Asikin on Monday. We did the jaipong with two ladies, who already were in a far advanced stadium of the jaipong.

 

Friday 08-11-2006/ Saturday 08-19-2006

Arrival in Jakarta in the early afternoon. The same address as the first few days: LPMP. From here, were allowed to do what we want the final week. We’re no longer tied to the group. Still, we did some things together.

We had the bus only until Monday. Therefore, we went with the entire group to Ibu Asikin on Monday. We did the jaipong with two ladies, who already were in a far advanced stadium of the jaipong.


Farewell of our drivers.


 

For the rest, we spent much time in the shopping malls of Jakarta. On Monday, we say goodbye to our drivers. We give them a new Converse cap as a farewell gift.

 

On Wednesday, we all go to the wayang museum, in three taxis. Here, we’ve been given an interesting guided tour by Hengky Liem, with whom Mickelle could get along well. Gijs has his picture taken together with his wayangan Gatot Kaca. Some of us then go to the National Museum. For some of us, however, this too boring.

On Thursday, it’s the 17th of August, Independence Day. Even though a parade passes, it stays rather calm. Apparently, there wasn’t a ceremony at the Padepokan. Normally, Paatje always goes to The Hague on this day. Now he’s in Indonesia himself, it all went more or less passed him. Today, we have a meeting with bapak Azis, president of the PAMUR. He treats us to a dinner in a beautiful restaurant in the open air. It’s very pleasant and very tasty.

Thereafter, Gijs and Mickelle joined Paatje to the house of bapak Rustadi Effendi, who is also known as ‘Tata’. Paatje regards bapak Tata as his own son, and his children as his grandchildren. In the evening, we pick up Neeltje, who had spent the entire day with her friend Yesi. We also celebrate the first birthday of Isadora, Yesi’s daughter.

Paatje and Mickelle and of course Neeltje as well are very grateful to Yesi for the many nice things she arranged for us. On Friday, the entire club had dinner with an aunt of Taty Bovenlander. Yesi arranged this with Edith, Taty’s niece. Unfortunately, Paatje wasn’t able to join us, as he had things to arrange at the Padepokan. For us, however, the afternoon was unforgettable: welcomed with so much hospitality and joy by Taty’s family and ate so well.

On Friday night, it’s time for Paatje’s highlight of the trip. Yesi arranged that he can join a broadcast of the television program “Going Country”. With a small group (Paatje, Yesi, her husband, her friend Merlis, Neeltje, Gijs, Anthony, and Mickelle) we go to the studio of Metro TV. We’re live on tv in Tantowi Yahya’s show, of which Paatje is a great fan. Unfortunately, Tantowi herself is the Netherlands at that time.

In the meantime, our friends are gathered around the television. We are in the Independence broadcast: everybody is dressed in red and white. Except for us, white members of the former occupation force, who are wearing their normal clothes. We even have to enter the dance floor: the party’s complete. The very next day, Anthony is being recognised down the hallway of our hotel: “Hey, you.... dancing!”

 

Saturday morning, we all visit bapak Saleh, sesepuh of the PAMUR. Unfortunately, bapak Saleh himself is not at home. His wife gives us a basket with cassave crisps. This basket is completely rifled by us.

 

On Saturday afternoon and evening, everyone is goes to his or her favorite shopping mall to go shopping for a last time. Some go to Cito’s, a party centre in Jakarta, which is nice to visit on a Saturday night.

 

On Sunday, we go back to Europe with pain in our hearts. So, here our trip ends. With many kilos of extra luggage. Fortunately, we don’t have to pay. Just Paatje’s suitcase can’t get enough: it doesn’t want to go back to the Netherlands and after a trip around the world, it is delivered at home not till three weeks after our arrival.

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Paatje at the television show´Going Country´.